on confidence

In the videos below, Homaira unpacks her research and expertise and offers practical tips to elevate your life and start living with greater authenticity and purpose.

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Why is perfection such a  pervasive problem for women? - Homaira Kabir

Why is perfection such a
 pervasive problem for women?

In this short clip, Homaira shares why so many of us are hooked onto perfectionism, what that does to our confidence, and simple ways in which we can start living with greater authenticity and alignment with ourselves.

Goodbye, Perfect
Audio Book Series

Book reading series from the chapter
 on Purpose.

Excerpt 1: Disowning Ourselves. Excerpt 2: Coming Back Home. Excerpt 3: Finding Purpose. Excerpt 4: Resisting Purpose. Excerpt5: Living with Purpose


Breaking The
Confidence Ceiling

It’s a paradoxical reality that despite competence and success, many women experience the Imposter Syndrome at work. Watch to learn why this may be so, and the important 4 step formula to turn competence into lasting confidence. 

4 Strategies to Strengthen Relationships

Cultivating strong relationships may be one of the strongest needs we have. When our lives are filled with love and support, we become kinder, more empathetic, and overall deeply satisfied. Here are 4 strategies to help build healthy relationships.

4 Keys to Being Productive
in the New Normal

Being active in work and in your personal life is probably one of the toughest things to do during a chaotic time. However, with the right attitude and tools, it is possible.
Here are 4 strategies to help you be productive during difficult times.

A Guide to Plan for
an Uncertain Future

It’s normal to wonder what will happen tomorrow. We would never know what the future will bring. But we can think about what might occur and plan for those reasonable possibilities. Learn how to create an action plan for the future.

Managing Anxiety
in Stressful Times

Feeling anxious is part of being human. With social distancing rules in place, it can make some of us feel isolated and lonely, which only heightens stress. Let’s go over some coping mechanisms that can help you stay well, even during stressful times.


I’m a mentor, author, researcher, women’s cheerleader, dedicated to helping you create an outer life that reflects your inner potential.

My work is grounded in years of scientific study and research to help you break through your inner barriers and boldly pursue your wildly authentic life. 


Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed and soulful journey of reaching for our highest potential by working through our fears and embracing out authentic expression.

It takes a compassionate approach to self-improvement that’s based on the simple premise: our light exists only in relation to our darkness. The most powerful turning points in life happen when we do the inner work of self-awareness.


Ever feel that going through life is like driving on a highway? One minute you’re cruising along, and the next you miss an exit or find yourself in a traffic jam?

The Life is a Highway podcast is about living a good life as an imperfect human being in an imperfect world. Its where we talk about everyday experiences—what the living do and feel—in order to learn and grow through them. Or sometimes simply laugh at them.