
Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed path to actualizing our full potential by working through our fears and embracing our authentic expression.


Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed path to actualizing our full potential by working through our fears and embracing our authentic expression.


Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed path to actualizing our full potential by working through our fears and embracing our authentic expression.


Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed path to actualizing our full potential by working through our fears and embracing our authentic expression.


Goodbye, Perfect is a science-backed path to actualizing our full potential by working through our fears and embracing our authentic expression.


Build
real
Confidence and Reach Your Full Potential
Build
real
Confidence and Reach Your Full Potential
Build
real
Confidence and Reach Your Full Potential
If you’re ever wondered why you feel like a fraud despite your many achievements…
If you shy away from work you long to do and things you long to say because of that voice in your head…
If you experience the same gut-wrenching self-doubt every time you need to step out of your comfort zone…
Then you probably have fragile confidence
For fans of Brene Brown and lovers of inspiring self-help titles, Goodbye, Perfect is a must-read leadership and self-care book for women who are tired of the toxic trap of perfection, pleasing and permission-seeking, and ready to live a life of joy, authenticity and true confidence.
Grounded in science and filled with soulful stories, the book is an uplifting and empowering read that will transform your life, both professionally and personally.If you’re ever wondered why you feel like a fraud despite your many achievements…
If you shy away from work you long to do and things you long to say because of that voice in your head…
If you experience the same gut-wrenching self-doubt every time you need to step out of your comfort zone…
Then you probably have fragile confidence.
For fans of Brene Brown and lovers of inspiring self-help titles, Goodbye, Perfect is a must-read leadership and self-care book for women who are tired of the toxic trap of perfection, pleasing and permission-seeking, and ready to live a life of joy, authenticity and true confidence.
Grounded in science and filled with soulful stories, the book is an uplifting and empowering read that will transform your life, both professionally and personally.

“Let go of the self-doubt and perfectionism that holds you back with Goodbye Perfect! Teaching actionable steps to break the toxic cycle, Homaira gives you the tools you need to focus energy on the most important aspects of your life and make the biggest impact.”
Dr. Marshall Goldsmith is the #1 Executive Coach and New York Times bestselling author of The Earned Life, Triggers and What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.


“Now, more than ever, the world needs empowered women. In Goodbye Perfect, Homaira Kabir brilliantly shares how to unshackle ourselves so we can show up fully, share our voices, and contribute our gifts for the betterment of all.”
Marci Shimoff, #1 NY Times best-selling author, Happy for No Reason and Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul.

“Let go of the self-doubt and perfectionism that holds you back with Goodbye Perfect! Teaching actionable steps to break the toxic cycle, Homaira gives you the tools you need to focus energy on the most important aspects of your life and make the biggest impact.”
Dr. Marshall Goldsmith is the #1 Executive Coach and New York Times bestselling author of The Earned Life, Triggers and What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.
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Get Amazing Bonuses
bonus
1-4 copies
- 90 minute workshop with a powerful growth tool (not in the book)
5-9 copies
bonus
- 90 minute workshop with a powerful growth tool (not in the book)
- Self-care Toolkit
- Reader’s guide and Book Club kit
+10 copies
bonus
- 90 minute workshop with a powerful growth tool (not in the book)
- Self-care Toolkit
- Reader’s guide and Book Club kit
- Free membership into the Goodbye, Perfect Program (USD 1150 value)
If you would like to purchase 25+ copies of Goodbye, Perfect, please contact us at homaira@homairakabir.com
about the author
Homaira Kabir is a women’s leadership development and wellbeing coach, author, speaker and champion for women’s flourishing. She is the founder of the Goodbye Perfect Project dedicated to breaking free from the inner patriarchy of unreasonable expectations, and reclaiming joy, authenticity and purpose as the basic tenets of a full and meaningful life.
Her early experience with an eating disorder became the catalyst for her pursuit of inner freedom. She has a double Master’s degree in Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, and has done extensive postgraduate research on woman’s confidence and flourishing. Her work speaks to the longing in many of us to break through our inner shackles, and befriend the mess and paradox of our everyday lives.
Her unique ability to blend science and soul helps inspire what’s possible, while addressing some of the very real challenges of life through practical and evidence-based tools and strategies. Her writing is widely published in Forbes, Happify, ThriveGlobal, the Huffington Post, Positive Psychology News Daily and more. She has been called “inspirational”, “a beacon of hope”, and “a ray of sunshine in dark times”.

about the author
Homaira Kabir is a women’s leadership development and wellbeing coach, author, speaker and champion for women’s flourishing. She is the founder of the Goodbye Perfect Project dedicated to breaking free from the inner patriarchy of unreasonable expectations, and reclaiming joy, authenticity and purpose as the basic tenets of a full and meaningful life.
Her early experience with an eating disorder became the catalyst for her pursuit of inner freedom. She has a double Master’s degree in Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, and has done extensive postgraduate research on woman’s confidence and flourishing. Her work speaks to the longing in many of us to break through our inner shackles, and befriend the mess and paradox of our everyday lives.
Her unique ability to blend science and soul helps inspire what’s possible, while addressing some of the very real challenges of life through practical and evidence-based tools and strategies. Her writing is widely published in Forbes, Happify, ThriveGlobal, the Huffington Post, Positive Psychology News Daily and more. She has been called “inspirational”, “a beacon of hope”, and “a ray of sunshine in dark times”.
interview
Q: Why is your book called Goodbye, Perfect?
A: We’re living through a unique moment in our collective lives where the chaos and uncertainty we face calls for a certain letting go, easing up on ourselves and our expectations, and holding compassionate space for our imperfections. It’s the only way we can do the work we’re being called to do for our individual and collective flourishing.
Q: What is the main message of the book?
A: At its heart is the dual call—to let go of the idea of perfection, and to bring compassionate awareness to ourselves, to our past, our beliefs, our reactions, and our emotions as fallible human beings. And to fall in love with our unique gifts and deepest longings, so we’re drawn by our dreams and not driven by our fears.
Q: What is the role of confidence?
A: Goodbye, Perfect is based on my postgraduate research on confidence. It wasn’t what I set out to study, which was women’s flourishing and self-actualization. But very soon, it became clear to me that one of the key blockers to self-actualization is something I call Fragile Confidence. It’s confidence that comes from achieving externally valued goals because of a deep sense of lack or unworthiness. It’s what hooks us onto praise, perfecting, pleasing ,and proving.
Q: Is this book for working women only?
A: It’s for everyone who recognizes that the extent to which we rise depends in the strength of the ground on which we stand. And most of us stand on weak ground and have inner work to do. It is the reality of our bio-psycho-social makeup as a human being.
interview
Q: Why is your book called Goodbye, Perfect?
A: We’re living through a unique moment in our collective lives where the chaos and uncertainty we face calls for a certain letting go, easing up on ourselves and our expectations, and holding compassionate space for our imperfections. It’s the only way we can do the work we’re being called to do for our individual and collective flourishing.
Q: What is the main message of the book?
A: At its heart is the dual call—to let go of the idea of perfection, and to bring compassionate awareness to ourselves, to our past, our beliefs, our reactions, and our emotions as fallible human beings. And to fall in love with our unique gifts and deepest longings, so we’re drawn by our dreams and not driven by our fears.
Q: What is the role of confidence?
A: Goodbye, Perfect is based on my postgraduate research on confidence. It wasn’t what I set out to study, which was women’s flourishing and self-actualization. But very soon, it became clear to me that one of the key blockers to self-actualization is something I call Fragile Confidence. It’s confidence that comes from achieving externally valued goals because of a deep sense of lack or unworthiness. It’s what hooks us onto praise, perfecting, pleasing ,and proving.
Q: Is this book for working women only?
A: It’s for everyone who recognizes that the extent to which we rise depends in the strength of the ground on which we stand. And most of us stand on weak ground and have inner work to do. It is the reality of our bio-psycho-social makeup as a human being.
