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Homaira Kabir is a passionate advocate for women’s joy, leadership and empowerment through the ultimately liberating work of inside-out confidence.

Her ground-breaking research on women’s confidence distinguishes between two types of high confidence—fragile and optimal—and the indispensable role of authenticity to create a positive impact in today’s complex, chaotic and diverse world.

She is the founder and CEO of The Goodbye Perfect Project that provides science backed tools, programs and experiences to help women rise to their highest potential. The project grew from her decade-long quest to understand what drives women to set impossible standards for themselves, and to help them liberate themselves from the expectations that stifle their growth and happiness.

Her work has appeared in Forbes, Happify, The Huffington Post, Thrive Global and many other publications with over 1 million views. Her inside-out approach to confidence helps women reclaim and redefine feminine leadership in the 21st century and empowers them to show up with a “strong back and a soft front” in their homes, workplaces and communities.

A writer at heart, she describes her early struggles with an eating disorder in her upcoming book: Goodbye Perfect: How To Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing for Others… And Live for Yourself. It is a heart-warming and uplifting read that blends science and soul, and offers a research-backed framework to true freedom—freedom from the addiction to fixing, proving, pleasing and performing that keeps so many women trapped in an unhappy and unfulfilling life.

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Homaira Kabir is a leading expert on the science that underpins women’s confidence, and the importance of building the “right kind” of confidence to actualize embedded potential. For over a decade, she has been sharing her research and paradigm-shifting approach to confidence building in media around the world including Forbes, Happify, The Huffington Post and Thrive Global. A University of East London graduate with a Masters in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, she has contributed to several books and is the author of the upcoming: Goodbye Perfect: How to Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing for Others…And Live for Yourself. Her signature program Goodbye Perfect is based on her research and offers women a practical roadmap to show up with their full power in a world that doesn’t make it easy to do so. Visit Homaira at