Are you trying to fit into a
perfect
container that's too small for your limitless potential?
HI I'M HOMAIRA KABIR
Mentor, Author, Researcher, Coach and cheerleader, dedicated to helping you create an outer life that reflects your inner potential.
My work is grounded in years of scientific study and research to help tap into the riches your life embodies, break through your inner barriers, and boldly pursue your wildly authentic life.
If you’re looking for science-backed tools and soulful support to live with joy and ease, connect deeper in your relationships, and do work that fuels you and helps you make a difference in your home, workplace or community, you’re in the right place!

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LET GO OF
BEHAVIORS
unhelpful
Do you struggle to let go of behaviors that you know are getting in your way of experiencing joy or success? Do you long to be free of perfecting, pleasing, performing, or of needing praise or approval—but just can’t do it?
Join me on October 1 for a FREE 4 day training where I’ll help you say goodbye to your unhelpful behaviors for good. And it’s all based in science and backed by research 🙂
“Homaira is a trusted voice in helping overcome the self-doubt and fear that hold so many people back from achieving the life they most desire. She not only offers scientifically sound principles and cutting-edge research, she also shares practical, actionable steps you can implement right away to begin improving your life today”
SANDRA JOSEPH
THE
program
The Goodbye Perfect Program is 20- week transformative journey for women who are ready to live, love and lead with confidence and authenticity.
With a research backed curriculum, expert coaching and consistent support, this online program will empower you with the clarity and courage to live the biggest version of your life.
THE
membership
There’s no cute and catchy phrase to define my blog.
This is where I share my personal dilemmas and musings, stories from 10+ years of coaching experience, nuggets of wisdom from having lived around the world, tools from the research, career coaching, business acumen, parenting advice and everything in between. Because writing is how I make sense of the world. There’s something for you no matter who you are and where you are on your life’s journey!
latest from the blog

3 Keys to Practicing True Self-Care
My mother’s reaction was so predictable. Every time I would share my dreams, my vision, or how I wanted to impact the world in some way, she would listen and then say,

Create Space in Your Life for Connections to Others
This article first appeared in Happify We generally think of February as a month to celebrate relationships. For most of us, this means flowers, gifts, and dinners—the more expensive, the better. But

A 3-Step Plan to Take Your Dreams from Vision to Reality
First published on Happify. When my four children were little, we spent a good part of one summer break creating vision boards. A decade or so later, I found the four boards
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The people in your life are lucky to have you.
“Dear Homaira, you give me a lot to think about and guide me through difficult issues in my life. You give me positive energy when all I feel is negative. The people in your life are lucky to have you.” – JUDEE
What a gift!
“A kind, thorough, and thoughtful teacher! Homaira has taught me to listen and recognize signs in my body that suggest feelings of fear and insecurity. Being attentive with a more open heart and mind, I have gained a stronger sense of self and thus have become more compassionate in my relationships. What a gift!” – BARB
Merci for your timely words of wisdom
“What I love most about you is finding you in my everyday quest to resonate with a soulful life. Merci for your timely words of wisdom. It’s the idea of seek & you shall find. I found you in my quest.” -KELLYANN
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WHAT IS YOUR
CONFIDENCE
archetype?
What’s stopping you from playing big and bringing your dreams to life?
It’s probably a confidence dependency. Curious?
Answer a few key questions (based on confidence research) to see what your confidence depends on and reveal your confidence archetype.
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DISCOVER
YOUR
confidence
Does it sometimes feel like life keeps knocking you down or is asking more from you than you can possibly give?
Download this workbook to build practices that help you show up to life regardless of what it brings your way.
THE
antifragile
TOOLBOX
Does it sometimes feel like life keeps knocking you down or is asking more from you than you can possibly give?
Download this workbook to build practices that help you show up to life regardless of what it brings your way.